Self help

Live where you are…..

Forget about your future, forget about your past just live in present for a while.Do what you like,eat what you love and just let it all go.

I know for a fact that most of us feel terrible just because of our past events or ‘likely’ unstable future. We just keep worrying and worrying about those things that just not matter now. So please stop doing that to your self and start living in the present. Don’t worry about your future or past. Focus on present. 

What I mean by living in the present – 

Obviously iIdon’t mean that to just go berserk and quit your job because you can afford a trip to Vegas for now. By saying that you should live in the present I mean that you should do things which makes you happy now and just do some work so you can keep doing such things in the future. 

Sounds contradicting? 

Well let me elaborate better

According to me one should just care about those things in future which we can control and we should not worry about things which are far out of our control. For example – Worrying about whether you will get a promotion or not this year will not make anything better for you. This worry may feel like no big deal but a heap of such worries can make your life miserable. Want a promotion? Just go to work, do your best and enjoy(If you can’t enjoy your work, then certainly you don’t deserve a promotion). Just forget about the result. If you get a promotion, celebrate if you don’t get the promotion still celebrate (just try to keep it low). Life is meant to be celebrated, please don’t waste it worrying about future. 

Enough about the future let’s talk about past-

 ‘ Accept your past ‘

This is the best advice I can give you but it is easier said than done. 

So, how to accept your past?( Try hypnotism😶? ) 

There is a great quote by Brian Tracy that I would like to share- 

“You cannot control what happens to you, but you can control your attitude toward what happens to you”

This quote captures my idea perfectly. You can’t change your past but you can find good in it. Always look at the brightest side. If you keep a positive attitude you can find something positive in the worst moments of your life. The worst thing happened to you must have done something good for you. For example if you are just divorced think about the opportunities it opens for you. You don’t have to answer your spouse any more, you can go out dating again but you can’t get back with him/her, so just don’t look that way. You deserve a lot better. 

Friends living in the present is the first part of self development. Enjoy your present(🎁) and always keep looking for opportunities. 

This is it for now everyone. Please let me know if I have helped you a little in making your life a little better and share if you can.